049 Tuesday to Tuesday (Mar. 25-31, 2015)
Last week in March. We will return home in less than a year now. Sounds like a short time, and as each week quickly passes, it is a short time.
The relatives I want to introduce are on my Grandma Walton’s side. She was a Perry before marrying a Walton. Her ggrandfather was Solomon Perry. Family tradition has it that his grandfather, Solomon, and brother, John, came from England landing in New York. They later settled in western North Carolina where they were some of the first white settlers.
I have not found any evidence of Solomon Sr. and John, but I do know about Solomon the grandson. He was born in 1805 and married twice. His first wife was Elizabeth Ham. Very little is known about this family. They had seven children that I’m working on now.
The second wife was Tobitha Ham. She was born in 1848. They were married in Ashe Co. on December 23, 1863. Their marriage record gives her nickname of Bithy. When they were married, she was 15 and he was 58. I’d call that robbing the cradle. It was reported that they were happy, and she adored him. They would take into their home older people who had no one to take care of them. They lived in the Horse Creek area of Ashe. It was a common sight to see them walking to church, he walking with a cane in one hand and leading a small child with the other. Tobitha often had a small baby in her arms. Solomon was a successful farmer and gristmill owner.
Solomon died in 1891 and is buried in the Ham Cemetery. There is no marker. After he passed away, Tobitha remarried a couple of years later but had no children. She married a third time, but they only lived together a couple of months. She did not carry this man’s last name and went back to the name of her second husband.
Solomon and Tobitha’s son, James Gentry Perry, was my ggrandfather. I would like to say I vaguely remember meeting him. However, I guess it’s the power of suggestion that I feel this way. He died the year before I was born. I believe that he was living with Grandma and Grandpa Walton when he died.
|James Gentry and Elzina Senatta Miller Perry, parents of Solomon Perry|
The 25th of March (Wednesday) was transfer day. That morning we had Denise’s team meeting. She was not happy with them before we got there, and the meeting was worse than we thought it would be. She was determined to tell them what for, meaning she did not like how she perceived she was being treated. She has until July to move out of her place, but she told them she was moving earlier. WOW! We shall see what happens.
That afternoon we went to the Chapel where the transfers were taking place. Again, Craig and I had to organize the cleaning party. This time, we had it ready to go. They got onto it, and it was great. That evening we went to the Mission Home to give a send off to the 24 Elders and Sisters that were leaving the mission field. They are a fine group of your men and women. They we went back to the Chapel for Testimony meeting and finally got home around 10:30. What a marvelous way to spend the day!
On Thursday, we spent the time with Victor. We took him to see two of the homes he had lived in when a young man in Milwaukee. He got really emotional seeing them and remembering his mom and grandma living there. Then we went to the Catholic Basilica downtown. It is a beautiful building. Victor’s grandma went to Church there. He was emotional there also. We took pictures so he could put them in his family history. We had a wonderful time with him.
That evening we had Pathway. The students are reading a book (they had several to choose from) that helps them relate the managing of their finances with the Gospel. On top of everything else that they do, this is keeping them busy. They will report on the book on the last evening of class.
On Friday, we met with Brother and Sister Rutowski regarding Pathway. We were meeting to get to know each other better and to bounce around ideas on how to promote the program for next year. We had Thai food, and it was good as usual. He used to be a member of the Nauvoo Temple Presidency. He indicated that since we wouldn’t be here all next year, we might need to be replaced. I hate that idea. Their younger cohort is now down to 2 students, one of which doesn’t come regularly. You can’t learn together if you have no one to discuss ideas with and to get opinions from.
Denise found an apartment. We get a call that she has found one. We can’t believe it and want to hold her back. If she moves, she will lose all the support of her counselors, social workers, etc. that she has had for 4 years. I don’t think she realizes how much support they give her. She will know on Sunday or Monday if she gets it.
That night Craig and I asked the Armstrongs (Dave and Virginia) to go to a hamburger place to eat. We had coupons that cut the cost in half, and we like that. We enjoy being with them. She is not a member, and she confessed while there that she does not want to give up her coffee. If she had a testimony, it would be no big thing. I think she is afraid of getting a testimony for that reason. Yet, she comes to Church regularly with him, and they are living all the other commandments. We will continue to be friends because they are good people.
On Saturday there was a pancake breakfast at our Parkway Ward. We had told Denise we would pick her up, but she said her sister would bring her. She had her three oldest kids with her also. The next morning, Denise called to say that her sister wouldn’t do it. So we had to go and make two trips to get her family to the Church. Because of it, we were the last group there about 15 minutes before it was over. We still had a good time. The boys found some friends to play with, and Denise got to meet new people.
That evening was General Women’s Conference. I had to take a dessert so I called upon Sam’s little brownies to do the trick. So clever! What a marvelous conference, if it is a prelude to what is coming, this will be a spiritual conference next weekend.
Sunday is always a good day. It is wonderful to be able to go to Church and renew our covenants with the Lord. When we keep our covenants, we are blessed and our lives are so full. Afterwards, we took the Elders home. It was a great day!
Denise did get the apartment. She has to be moved by Wednesday. We will have to help her but we have some things to do also this week.
On Monday, we have an appointment with an Elder Lifferth who left a container of his stuff here until he could come back and get it. At 1:00, he planned to come by, so we decided to go to Denise’s house to help her pack. I ended up packing the kitchen and cleaning most of the cupboards. I would not clean her dishes up and she wanted to pack all her food, so I left a couple of things for her to do. Craig packed other things. She was getting rid of so much stuff. She got rid of all of Timmy’s books. She said she didn’t read them to him, and she wouldn’t have room for them in the new apartment. Evidently, it is a tiny apartment, one bedroom, kitchen and living room together, and one bath. She is so excited she can’t stand it, but she is also going nuts because of all she has to do.
The last day of March came and went. We will never have an end to March in Wisconsin again. How sad is that! We finished a week inspecting missionary apartments; then a district meeting; and finally, a couple of hours of math practice. We stayed busy, and it was a good day. This is a good way to finish the month.
Our Scripture for March is from Doctrine and Covenants 68:4 -
And whatsoever they shall speak when moved upon by the Holy Ghost shall
be scripture, shall be the will of the Lord, shall be the mind of the Lord,
shall be the word of the Lord, shall be the voice of the Lord, and the power
of God unto salvation.